“YOU DID WHAT TO HER?” I screamed into the phone in the middle of Peet’s Coffee, a regular coffee shop in the Middle of Pasadena. The subsequent looks of polite disdain and calculated glances intended to make me feel self-conscious would not work in this situation. I was acting out a social experiment.
My voice slowly rose to a peak, and, while some customers had clearly given me dirty looks, not one person politely asked me to stop. It appears that, in today’s society, politeness far outweighs any personal umbrage one may take in reference to annoying media use.
Unfortunately, we all deal with situations of poor voice control on the phone or people texting non-stop every day. As a result, we become jaded and disinterested, even when someone right next to us yells into his phone about expulsion and assault. This new attitude raises another question: has media truly changed what is socially acceptable, or has it simply made people indifferent to obnoxious people?
I would argue that the answer is both. Media has, without a doubt, extended the definition of “social conduct” to include texting in public and talking on the phone as well. However, such extensions should not include abuse of technology. Yelling on the phone and not noticing you have reached the front of the line because you are texting should not be permitted in today’s society.
The fact that people treat these issues with a polite indifference proves that most people would prefer to suffer through something annoying rather than have any form of confrontation. To stop people from abusing technology, though, we must begin to take a polite stand against them. It is time to reintegrate those people into the real world and save them from the shroud of technology in which they have wrapped themselves.